IFEYINWA contact: ifyatuanya@yahoo.com: March 2018

Anonymous 30 March 2018 at 20:51

Marriage is an achievement especially if you marry the right person, your soul mate. That's why most people who are not married feel the need to be married, whether for the societal pressure, or for fulfilment, or for validation, whatever your reasons to get married, it is an achievement and it's a milestone. If it is not an achievement, why do all the rich ladies who said they don't need it still end up married? If you are a Christian, listen up: the bible said that marriage is honorable, marital bed undefiled. Marriage is one institution God never jokes with, that's why devil will not cease to attack marriages. Forget about this new concept of having children with whoever you want and living your life single and sleeping with whom ever you wish, it is not morally right and not spiritually right also. Marriage is an achievement because, it is not easy for one to settle down, do you know how many people who have been wanting to settle down, to have a man they can call their own, a woman who they can call their own? Some one you can share your dreams with and give their heart to? If you think it's not an achievement why would it be at a marriage ceremony that Jesus performed his first miracle? He did it so that the marriage will go on smoothly. You'll appreciate these examples if you are a Christian though. Please you guys should stop deceiving people and allow them pray and focus to achieve the blessing of marriage. Most of you guys who come on social media to say marriage is not important or an achievement end up getting married and the ones that follow you guys are misled. Oma Nnadi said in an interview that marriage is not important to her and that she doesn't care, alas, few months later she got married. They always use Genevieve and Linda Ikeji as examples that marriage is not an achievement, but I tell you Genevieve is codedly married, hiding it because she doesn't want it to be over publicised and end up like the other social media marriages. Linda is engaged to be married, she is equally going that route of coding, you and may not know when she consumates it and drop patter of tiny feet. So whether we like it or not, whether we'll tell selves the truth or not, marriage is an achievement PERIOD!!