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Dabota Lawson  Wrote :

”This weekend I spent a lot of time thinking and talking about past events in my life . My friends kept saying Dabota everything happens for a reason and you are who you are today because of all that has happened. But I said to them and myself NO!! I’m not soooo thankful, I wish I made better decisions and was careful before getting involved with certain things and certain people . I wish I could see the future of how some of my poor decisions will stay hunting me , because they actually do 😤 Every time I win or do better it’s because I chose to and I took a right turn , not always because I’ve learned a lesson. The only thing I know is my mind and heart is just stronger, too strong for my own good, I’m almost not in touch with reality and strictly focused on pursuing goals and making sure everyone and everything around me is fine. 

I miss being care free and the softness and innocence I used to have. I hate the fact that I have major trust issue and assume everyone has an ulterior motive around me . I mostly regret ever getting married in 2014 ( please keep all that lessons and whatever you think I got from it talk ) I hate the fact that I did !PERIOD! 





 



 

The only I did right that keeps me going was making the decisions to go through with my pregnancy and have my child . My daughter is only thing I’ve done right in the world over 25 years of my life . That’s how I feel. 
Be careful the decisions you make in life . This is a very stern warning , everything you do has a consequence that only you will experience in way only you can understand . BE VERY CAREFUL ! HAVE A GREAT WEEK !”

 

 

OAP Toke Makinwa has advised former beauty queen, Dabota Lawson, to forgive herself and let go of the past. She made this known in an Instagram post shortly after Dabota revealed that she regrets getting married to a billionaire in 2014.

 

 

Recall that few weeks ago, Toke was on her vlog advising US singer

She said:

Cassie if you ever watch the video, you have to upgrade. You have to go and find a Russian billionaire. You know the type if you don’t like to work, they would keep you in Gucci and Gold for the rest of your life. Then just hire Diddy to perform at your wedding. Just hire him because you feel like paying him some coins. That is the best revenge you can give to a guy like that. 

 

Guess Dabota Lawson’s case with her ex-billionaire hubby proves Toke Makinwa wrong and that happiness doesn’t come with money.

 

See Toke Makinwa’s humbling note to Dabota Lawson:

”Hey baby cakes, I know you think you’ve got it all figured out but who are we without our flaws? Who are we without our mistakes? We will still make some more.

Regret is so exhausting, forgive yourself. We don’t forgive ourselves enough. Oprah said “forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past could have been any different”.

So in essence let go of the hope that you could have made better choices, let go of the guilt, let go of it all and celebrate how much growth has happened. You’ll still make more mistakes, we all will. Let’s just pray for grace to catch us big hug 🤗 #Byeeeee.”