Well... marriage is a good institution, if you ask me. And it is not just meant for everyone.
Hard as it may sound.
Some people are better off single and some are better off married.
It is all by choice; i guess. To rush into marriage 'cause of society's ignorance and insecurity, not to talk of foolishness (lol!), is to rush out of it, or be in misery for the rest of one's life - God forbid.
For people that can't mind their business or have nothing else to say by asking the question "are u married, when are you getting married, don't you know know that you're getting any younger and so on" should, pls, get a life.
There is so much to life aside from marriage, i mean so much like, travel, visiting art galleries, reading, attending seminars and workshops, being involved in charity work, helping the aged, children in need, looking after disabled people in homes, volunteering, teaching, mentoring, learning a trade, writing, keeping busy, reading (pls, help me out here); i mean so many things one can do even being married.
'Cause sometimes after a while in the marriage, for some, boredom sets in - that's when one finds some females becoming the biggest busybodies and gossips.
At the end, i believe that one should get married when they know & feel in their spirit that it is high time they got married, and they are ready for the commitment of "for better and for worse" not because of age concerns, or maybe fertility concerns, so on and so forth.
Then again, fear drives a lot of people into the marriage thing, that is why there are lots of problems in the marriage institutions.
Hard as it may sound.
Some people are better off single and some are better off married.
It is all by choice; i guess. To rush into marriage 'cause of society's ignorance and insecurity, not to talk of foolishness (lol!), is to rush out of it, or be in misery for the rest of one's life - God forbid.
For people that can't mind their business or have nothing else to say by asking the question "are u married, when are you getting married, don't you know know that you're getting any younger and so on" should, pls, get a life.
There is so much to life aside from marriage, i mean so much like, travel, visiting art galleries, reading, attending seminars and workshops, being involved in charity work, helping the aged, children in need, looking after disabled people in homes, volunteering, teaching, mentoring, learning a trade, writing, keeping busy, reading (pls, help me out here); i mean so many things one can do even being married.
'Cause sometimes after a while in the marriage, for some, boredom sets in - that's when one finds some females becoming the biggest busybodies and gossips.
At the end, i believe that one should get married when they know & feel in their spirit that it is high time they got married, and they are ready for the commitment of "for better and for worse" not because of age concerns, or maybe fertility concerns, so on and so forth.
Then again, fear drives a lot of people into the marriage thing, that is why there are lots of problems in the marriage institutions.
There are lots of "if's" questions.
"What if i don't get married, age is no longer on my side, this, that." It is a whole lot; i tell ya.
Anyway... for those that are married good for them, for those that are not married yet, good for them as well.
Thanks, The waffarin.
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