"BN HOT TOPIC - WHY DO WOMEN HATE ON WOMEN - BellaNaija" - Www.BellaNaija.Com

According to: 

 

 

www.bellanaija.com 

 

 

 

"Its been a while since we’ve had a ‘discussion’ on BN.

My best girlfriend, my mum and I talked about this over the weekend and as you might have guessed some other factors have contributed to making this our hot topic.

So here goes – ‘Why do women hate on women?’

 

 

 

 

I know its not ALL women and I am not trying to generalize.

It appears that women are the harshest critics of women. We see it all around.

From the office – ‘I’m so happy that I work with an all-male team….’, ‘I’ve only had a female boss once and it was hell!’

From the gossip columns – ‘Miss ABC was spotted canoodling with 3 guys at Club BBC’ story by Mrs B

Amongst your ‘friends’ – A: ‘Awww Bola is getting married!’ B: ‘Ummm really Thank God for her after she has slept with half of London’

On Bella Naija comments – LOL…I dont need to explain this one

 

 

 

Will love to read your thoughts on this? Is this a myth or does this ring true.

Any experiences? How can we change this."

Ifeoma-adiagwuagwu August 6, 2008 at 12:06 pm

 

 

     

Mary J Blige sings "no hatearation." Sisters should come together and be supportive of each other. There is no shame in gain. All for one, one for all.

 

 

 

Aretha Franklin did a duet with Annie Lenox of the Eurythmics and the tune goes this way, well…the chorus: 'sisters are doing it for themselves…standing on their own two feet…..' Sthg like that.

 

 

 

This is an era for successful sisters in terms of music, fashion, law, corporate jobs & bodies, modelling, public relations, writing, and a whole lot, you name it…. 
 

 

 

Now is the time for sisters to encourage and not discourage. Give more care and less hate. Share, give, laugh, enjoy, have fun all n the name of sisterhood. 'Cause time definitely waits for no one. 
 

 

 

It is either one is in or out. The train is moving along and for anyone that does not agree with the banner 'positivity' hanging on it, then they definitely don't have a space on the train.
 

 

 

Let's just have faith and all will be well.
 

 

 

Not leaving out LOVE which we all need as it is like a breath of fresh air.
 

 

 

Have fun…